Change can be hard enough for people, so I can only imagine what it’s like when you’re a dog and can’t quite anticipate or prepare for change in the same way we humans can. One of the biggest changes we can bring about in our dogs’ lives is adding a new puppy to the crew, and while some will immediately be thrilled and welcoming to their new little buddy, others aren’t exactly going to love adding another pup to the household.
One thing about dogs, though? They aren’t the best at hiding their feelings, so if your pup isn’t loving the vibe their new friend is bringing to the function, they’re going to let you know about it, just like this Golden Retriever did in the video below.
On Tuesday, December 3, dog mom Caitlyn Burkart shared this update on how her Golden Retriever and new puppy (another Golden Retriever, because really, can you ever have too many?) are getting along in a video on TikTok. To sum it up? Not well.
While the puppy seemed to love her new family and forever home, it doesn’t seem like her big sister loves her quite yet. She’s making it very clear from her facial expression that she does not like this new development in her family!
“What do you think? You guys gonna be friends one day?” Mom asks her older dog, who just keeps looking in the opposite direction. I think the answer to that question is no…
The good news? Even if she doesn’t decide to come around on her own, I have a feeling that this puppy is probably going to wear her down sooner or later. Besides, she seems like a sweetie!
Helping Your Dog Adjust to a Puppy
If your dog is having trouble adjusting to a new puppy in the house, all hope isn’t lost — there are a few things you can do to try to ease the tension at home.
Adaptil recommends ensuring that your dogs each have their own resources that are kept separate (like food, water, and toys) so they don’t feel that they have to compete. It’s also a good idea to give them each space from each other every day, and to make sure your older dog has a place to retreat to away from the puppy when they feel overwhelmed.
It’s also a good idea to make sure your puppy has plenty of opportunity to get all that puppy energy out, too, so they can be a bit calmer while around their new big brother or sister.
In the end, sometimes time really is the only thing that can make a situation like this better, so remember to stay patient — and don’t be shy about asking your vet or a professional trainer for advice and help if you need it!
